Mothers always assume that life is not upright without children, and that a woman who does not give birth will feel throughout her life remorse and guilt.
Women who are unable to conceive or who decide not to have children at a certain stage are often exposed to harmful statements or criticisms from women who have previously given birth.
You will regret it all your life and not feel happy if you don’t have children. This is one of many phrases that may hurt the feelings of a woman who has never had a child, even if she tries to hide her malaise.
In a report published in the Mexican magazine “soycarmin”, writer Brenda Colon Napar says that some women may act to motivate others to go through the experience of childbearing, but motherhood may not be a temptation for many.
Phrases do not say it
Regardless of whether the woman is unable to conceive for health reasons, or does not want to conceive, it is best for women who have gone through the experience to avoid such statements, including:
- You will regret it later.
- Later, you will change your mind.
- You don’t know that many women have children after the age of 40.
- You don’t know the value of the opportunity you’re wasting.
- You are filling the void to have children with your animals.
- A woman who is not either does not know the meaning of life.
- A woman who has no children is missing many.
- You will be alone.
What do you reflect the criticism of a woman without children?
Over time, women without children become accustomed to this type of comment, and learn to ignore, but criticizing others is always harmful, and does not take into account the difference of ideas and attitudes.
In fact, mothers always assume that life is not upright without children, and that a woman who does not give birth will feel throughout her life remorse and guilt.
At the same time, women who have not given birth should not direct criticism of any kind to women who have children, as the matter remains in the end a purely individual decision, according to the author.
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